Baldur’s Gate 3 Romance Guide

Baldur’s Gate 3 Romance Guide

Companions in Baldur’s Gate not only accompany you on adventures but can also be romanced. To romance companions in Baldur’s Gate 3, you’ll need to make correct choices to ensure that your desired characters approve of your actions. In this Baldur’s Gate 3 guide, we’ve detailed everything you need to know about how to romance companions in the game and the best choices that will lead to it.

Baldur’s Gate 3 All Romance Options

Since characters in Baldur’s Gate are life-like with their unique personalities, aspirations, backgrounds, and more; it can be hard to initiate romance with multiple companions.

On top of that, indulging in a romantic activity with a companion will cause the remaining companions to form an opinion about you, therefore, it’s better to look at all sides before starting.

Indulging in romance with a companion is pretty simple: you need to make choices that your desired companions will approve of – the complete list is provided below.

Continue to do so while completing any companion questlines that pop-up to start an intimate relationship with a character. The best place to engage in dialogues in the game is when your party is resting at the camp.

Astarion

Approves Disapproves
  • Decline the Devil’s invitation.
  • Persuade the gaurd outside the Goblin Camp.
  • Side with Lae’zel in going against the Tieflings.
  • Let him have at it your blood while at the camp.
  • Tell Auntie Ethel that you’ve got a tadpole at the Druid Grove.
  • Help Zevlor.
  • Allow True Soul Gut inside the Goblin Camp.
  • Smearing dung on the face when Olak asks you to do so.
  • Side with Wyll to protect the refugees in the Druid Grove.
  • Tell Marriko and Locke that it was the Druids who overreacted.

Shadowheart

Approves Disapproves
  • Bring Scratch to the camp.
  • Decline the Devil’s invitation.
  • Tell her that finding a healer is top priority.
  • Let Novice Crusher kiss you in the Goblin Camp.
  • Crush the Tadpole when outside the Druid Grove.
  • Persuade the Owlbear not to hurt you inside the cave.
  • Display your sword prowess in the Druid Grove to Guex.
  • Protect Auntie Ethel from Johl and Demir.
  • Persuade the gaurd outside the Goblin Camp.
  • Side with Lae’zel in going against the Tieflings.
  • Side with Wyll to protect the refugees in the Druid Grove.
  • Tell Auntie Ethel that you’ve got a tadpole at the Druid Grove.

Gale

Approves Disapproves
  • Helping Zevlor.
  • Bring Scratch to the camp.
  • Persuade Rolan to stay in the Druid Grove.
  • Side with Auntie Ethel against Johl and Demir.
  • Let Novice Crusher kiss you in the Goblin Camp.
  • Crush the Tadpole when outside the Druid Grove.
  • Persuade the Owlbear not to hurt you inside the cave.
  • Display your sword prowess in the Druid Grove to Guex.
  • Side with Wyll to protect the refugees in the Druid Grove.
  • Tell Marriko and Locke that it was the Druids who overreacted.
  • Side with Lae’zel in going against the Tieflings.
  • Smearing dung on the face when Olak asks you to do so.

Lae’zel

Approves Disapproves
  • Decline the Devil’s invitation.
  • Let Novice Crusher kiss you in the Goblin Camp.
  • Crush the Tadpole when outside the Druid Grove.
  • Display your sword prowess in the Druid Grove to Guex.
  • Persuade the Owlbear not to hurt you.
  • Persuade the gaurd outside the Goblin Camp.
  • Smearing dung on the face when Olak asks you to do so.

Wyll

Approves Disapproves
  • Helping Zevlor.
  • Bring Scratch to the camp.
  • Decline the Devil’s invitation.
  • Fight Fezzerk in the Blighted Village.
  • Persuade the gaurd outside the Goblin Camp.
  • Let Novice Crusher kiss you in the Goblin Camp.
  • Crush the Tadpole when outside the Druid Grove.
  • Display your sword prowess in the Druid Grove to Guex.
  • Smearing dung on the face when Olak asks you to do so.

Lastly, do note that our Baldur’s Gate romance and sex guide is currently work-in-progress. We’ll continue to add key dialogues and decisions in the coming days. Be sure to check back!

These are all the romance options in Baldur’s Gate 3. To learn more about the game, be sure to check out our detailed Baldur’s Gate wiki guides.